I’m getting sick of being involved with peoples lives, even if they’ve involved themselves into our business and not us interferring. Sounds odd? I’ll try to explain this as best as I can but I’ll keep thing anon for obvious reasons.
The Stars of this Story;
Jeccy - me, the hero
AJ - the wife
Bro - me wife’s brother and my brother-in-law
Non-Sis - my “Bro”’s very soon to be ex-wife
Niece - a pre-teen daughter of the Bro who is living with Non-Sis
AJ’s Mum - a catalyst for the proceedings
Idiot1/Idiot2 - two friends of “Non-Sis” who will be described later.
This all ties in with Facebook and is still ongoing.
Everything started abuse-wise 2 days ago, and this was the first that we were made aware that we were even involved in this, let alone the apparent reason for everything going tits up.
AJ a few weeks back is nosing about on Facebook, when she see’s a notice pop up on her profile saying “Idiot1 has been tagged by Idiot2 in these photos”. AJ notices however that Non-Sis is on the photo too, so she clicks to have a look. Basically there’s a photo album listed on there with people just having a laugh at a barbecue, which is harmless enough. 2 photos did stand out though, which were one with some bloke jokedly pulling Non-Sis’s top down to show off her cleavage and another where Non-Sis is flashing her bra. AJ showed me this, and I have to say Non-Sis is not a looker; I had to wash my eyes out with bleach after viewing that pic. Urrrggghh. But anyways AJ decides to message Idiot1 asking her why she’s stuck that photo on Facebook. The anser she got was “I haven’t stuck anything like that on here sorry, I don’t know what you are talking about.” AJ looks back at her photos and this one has been removed. So AJ says “Fair enough” and gets on with browsing etc.
The next day, AJ is visiting her mum and happens to mention the photo incident on Facebook; literally was mentioned on a whim and was mentioned as “BTW I was a bit surprised about this girl I knew on Facebook, stuck a few photos of Non-Sis and Niece on there”. Two minutes later they were yapping about something else (was most probably about telly, they talk bollocks to each other :p).
Now two days ago we get a phonecall out of the blue and some texts from Non-Sis, saying how we’ve ruined her marriage? Me and AJ are completely bemused by this as we don’t know what we’ve meant to have done. AJ also receives two abusive messages from Idiot1/Idiot2 through Facebook claiming how we have lied to get Bro and Non-Bro to split up? We’re both a bit confused by this as we heard that they were splitting up 2 weeks ago, so what the fuck has this got to do with us? We then get a call from Bro asking about these photos on Facebook. I tell him the truth which is “mostly harmless” (the old Hitchhiker’s Guide to planet Earth description) and just people having fun at a party. Essentially it was left as that and nothing else was said.
So now to the abuse on Facebook; I’ve been very calm about this and have read both emails sent to us and what I have noticed is that they seem to think it’s these pics which have split up their marriage. I quite happily emailed them back as formally as possible and advised them that they have both been misinformed as they have been splitting up for a few weeks now. Instead one of the Idiots carried on abusing AJ and me, so I politely repeated the email and even explained exactly as I have on this long boring post the main points as I have found. I also told them politely if they continue to abuse us through Facebook I’ll report them to the admins. I’ve not heard anything since.
Instead, Non-Sis next tried a different tactic of abuse which I don’t agree with at all. She got pre-teen Niece to call up AJ and scream down the phone “Why did you ruin my parents lives?!?!?” and cry her eyes out, while Non-sis prompted her as to what to say next. How fucking sick is that, using her daughter to abuse others with her own problems? Funnily enough, after receiving this call she rang AJ’s Mum and did the same thing, all of which was prompted by the Non-Sis (AJ’s Mum was actually laughing telling us how she could hear Niece screaming at her then hearing whispering from Non-Sis prompting her what to say next, then more screaming from the niece again).
Poor niece, being used a a tool for Non-Sis’s abuse. I personally won’t be sending her a Xmas card this year, oh no.
So if you were able to follow all of this, congratulations, you like watching Soap Operas and have never missed an episode of Home and Away in your entire life. For eveyone else who’se confused by all of this; basically Non-Sis is blaming me and AJ for her failed marriage when we had fuck all to do with it, and has slandered us to her friends about it. Stupid fat cow.